Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?
13.06.2025 01:43

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.
If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.
People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.
What should you answer when someone says to you in French, "au plaisir de vous revoir"?
If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.
It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.
No country for ugly people…
If there is an abandoned house with no owner, can I live in it?
That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.
Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.
BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.